My passion is to help women embrace their unique strengths and achieve their dreams—to first Understand, then Grow, then Change the world.

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Understand.

As women it’s important that we understand the unique challenges we face within the workplace. Once we understand our challenges, we can identify our opportunities and make them work for us.

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Grow.

Whether you’re a woman or a man, there are key actions you should take in order to ‘take charge’ of your career development—and ultimately your personal / professional growth. These are particularly important for women given their unique challenges.

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Change.

Ultimately, organizations need to change if they are truly going to first cultivate and then capitalize on a diverse workforce.

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As an executive coach and leader, one of my passions is helping career-minded women THRIVE in the workplace.  A workplace that, unfortunately, is not designed for women. That is, it’s generally biased towards men.  Now, that’s not intended to be a ‘dig’ towards men, it’s simply a reality that the workplace has evolved to be biased towards those who have historically dominated it. 

Unfortunately, this creates unique challenges for women to develop and succeed as leaders.  In my work in this space, I’ve developed a 3 prong approach that helps women succeed in the workplace—and seeks to eventually effect real change that will make it a more friendly place for everyone.  My approach—Understand, Grow, and Change—is aimed at helping both women and men:

  • Understand what the challenges are and the impact they have on women’s careers

  • Grow and develop as leaders despite those challenges

  • Change the workplace into one that both facilitates diversity and also benefits from it

 

To be clear, this isn’t about fostering women’s careers at the expense of men’s or selecting a woman for a leadership role over a more qualified man.  This is about providing opportunities and professional development that is tailored to women.  Because today’s workplace is tailored towards men—women aren’t being identified as talent, they aren’t receiving the type of coaching and feedback that THEY need to develop and succeed as leaders, managers don’t necessarily know how to provide feedback and coach women as effectively as they do men, and there is a woeful lack of females in senior leadership for women to aspire to.

This page is intended to be a resource center for women—and men—who are champions of workplace equality.  It highlights the challenges women face, the actions they can take to succeed, and the changes organizations need to make in order to foster a gender-equal workplace.  My work builds upon the research of a number of research organizations, academics, and thought leaders which I’ve referenced throughout—and have included some of their specific works in the Sources & Resources section as additional resources for you. 

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Understand.

Understand what the common obstacles are for women in the workplace. Not because we intend to become victims of it—but because it will put us in a better position to make it work for us.

Sources & Resources - McKinsey & Company : Lolly Daskal

There are elements of today’s workplace that are systemically biased towards men.

Representation.

It’s no secret that in most organizations, women aren’t well represented in leadership roles. The consequence is two-fold. First, young women don’t have role models to aspire to. Second, women and men often present the same desired leadership traits differently. When a hiring panel for example isn’t gender-diverse, it often simply fails to recognize those traits in the woman which puts her at a disadvantage.

Likeability versus Leadership.

Women have a ‘narrow ideal’ within which to act in order that they fit into the ‘prototype’ of what the workplace says it takes to be a successful leader and still remain LIKEABLE. For example, when a man acts assertively, he’s seen as demonstrating leadership which has a positive impact on his career.  When a woman acts assertively, she’s often seen as harsh and unbending, which can have the opposite effect on her career.

Potential vs Accomplishments.

Studies show that women are more likely to be judged based on their accomplishments while men are judged on their potential. This has an impact on women’s careers as it makes them less likely than men to advance early on.

 

Obstacles to Senior Leadership.

Statistical reality. Additionally those women who do succeed are typically appointed to Human Resources / Customer Service roles vs the critical functions of Sales / Operations, which has the effect of limiting the advancement opportunities for women.

Gender diversity is not seen as a priority.

Despite what they say, gender diversity is not seen as a priority in terms of the resources and effort organizations are willing to dedicate to making material changes. Meaning, while gender diversity often makes an appearance as an initiative or internal campaign, meaningful actions to institute KPI’s, train managers to develop female talent, and provide coaching resources to young women rarely make it to the table. 

There are other factors centered around key differences in the way men and women behave and process information that are both a result of the bias that exists in the workplace and can also contribute to it.

Portraying confidence.

Men are more likely than women to ‘raise their hand’ when they’re uncertain.  However, women seem to be answering a different question than men.  Consider this example.  When considering whether they’ll apply for a job, women hear – do you possess 100% of the skillsets necessary to do this role?  Men on the other hand hear – do you believe you can develop into this role?  Men are therefore much more likely than women to even APPLY for a job that they are equally qualified for. 

Networks.

Men generally place a much higher priority on networking than women do and at a younger age. Further, the composition of men’s networks are much more likely to include leader and senior leadership positions. By virtue of having more senior members in their network and earlier on in their careers, men are in a much better position than their female counterparts to advance.

Erosion of Ambition.

The toll of workplace challenges for women is the eventual erosion of ambition—which is unfortunate as, by this time (which is normally mid-career), organizations have made a considerable investment in their development.  And they miss out on being able to take advantage of it and often end up losing them altogether from their workforce.  That contributes even further to the lack of females in senior leadership roles.

Grow.

Grow in your leadership, in your skillset, and in your confidence by taking actions now that will change your career trajectory.  I’ll caution you that, while these things are SIMPLE, they’re not necessarily EASY.

Sources & Resources - Margaret Buj

Have a career plan.

Having a career plan doesn’t mean you have to plan out the rest of your life—nor does it mean you can’t change your mind. But have a plan. Think about what your potential long-term ‘destinations’ are and work backwards. What short-term milestones will get you closer to one or more of them?

Ask for feedback.

Now that you know where you’re headed, ask for feedback to determine where you are now—and most importantly, what you need to do in order to reach a short-term milestone.

Build your network.

The more people who know about and who are INVESTED in your career, the better! And don’t think of it as shameless self promotion. Remember that it’s your organization and their leaders who are the greatest beneficiaries of your developing career.

 

Find a mentor / sponsor.

It’s definitely important to find/have a mentor to provide guidance and helpful advice. But more importantly, actively seek out a ‘sponsor’. Mentors advise their mentees; sponsors advocate for their protégés and drive their career vision!

Be persistent.

Don’t give up just because someone says no. Think of ‘no’ as your starting point. It gets the conversation started. It’s the perfect opening to understand exactly what your obstacles are. It gets you in ‘the fray’—e.g. applying for a promotion that you ‘probably won’t get’ signals to the organization that you’re interested in advancing and forces them to provide developmental feedback.

Project confidence.

I get it that you don’t always FEEL confident—but the thing is, NO ONE does. Even that uber-confident guy that everyone loves in your office! The thing that he knows that you don’t, is that you GET what you put out there. Project what you want to get back!

Be someone people want to work with.

Effective leaders have integrity, they inspire and motivate their people. They lead with empathy and compassion. You don’t have to sacrifice who you are in order to succeed.

Take on challenges / stretch assignments.

This is a great way to gain experience, visibility, and build your confidence. It’s also a great way to expand and build your network. Don’t be timid—remember, the words ‘challenge’ and ‘stretch’ imply that they’re outside your comfort zone or experience so you won’t be perfect!

Connect with senior female leaders.

Trust me, the successful female leaders in your organization have been through and/or face the same challenges as you. Don’t be shy—these are the women that can both provide valuable insights and guidance and potentially be a great ‘sponsor’ for your career!

 

Invest in a coach.

As I said, these things are simple—but definitely not EASY! A coach with experience in this area can help you navigate the challenges of a gender-biased workplace as well as other things that can stand in the way—like confidence, courage, understanding your own power, and having the clarity on what you really want.   

Change.

If organizations are truly committed to gender diversity, they have to DO something about it. It won’t happen without intervention. There are simple but key actions every organization should be taking—targeting the earliest stages of a woman’s career.

Sources & Resources - Rosina L. Racioppi : Elizabeth McDaid

Framework.

‘Formulate a systematic and organization-wide approach for identifying female talent at the earliest career stages.’

Feedback.

Studies show that women don’t receive the same type of actional feedback that men do—which has an impact on their professional development.  Don’t assume that managers understand HOW to develop their female reports as well as they do their male counterparts.  Coach/incentivize managers to help early-career women build their confidence and competence through actionable feedback. 

Coaching.

Systemic bias in the workplace as well as differences in the way women and men behave and process information contribute to women’s difficulty in career advancement. Therefore, it’s important for organizations to provide coaching for female talent to help them navigate their unique challenges and thrive in their careers.

 

Opportunities.

Provide opportunities for female talent to grow and develop by giving them stretch assignments—meaning projects or assignments within the organization that give them more responsibility, expand their network, and test their leadership skills. Just remember that stretch assignments are designed to challenge a high performer and put them outside their comfort zone. Whether it’s a man or woman, this shouldn’t be a ‘pass / fail’ scenario—mistakes are growth opportunities, failures build character and otherwise hard-to-develop leadership skills.

Connect.

Connect young female talent with senior women business leaders. One of the things that women generally lack in the workplace is a lineup of senior female role models to aspire to. This is an excellent way to both bridge that gap and connect women with successful leaders that understand the challenges that they face.

Sponsor.

All senior and executive leaders should have a female protégé that they are sponsoring. A sponsor is very different from a mentor. 

‘A mentor advises the mentee; sponsors advocate for their protégés. A mentor can be anyone in a position of experience, while a sponsor is a senior-level executive. Mentors help build a career vision. Sponsors are personally invested in the upward movement and professional development of their protégé.’

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Sources & Resources.

 

Women in the Workplace

Study highlights the challenges that women face in Corporate America today.

— McKinsey & Company

Study Finds Disturbing Reasons Why So Few Women Are Leaders

Author provides a compelling summary of the findings of McKinsey & Co.’s ‘Women in the Workplace’ study.

— Lolly Daskal

Powerful Career Strategies for Women: 11 Top Tips for Advancement

Author sites simple but not necessarily intuitive actions for women looking to advance their careers.

— Margaret Buj

The Most Important Time to Support a Woman’s Career Development is in Her 20’s

Author challenges traditional female talent development strategies that start mid-career.

— Rosina L. Racioppi

The Fix

After 16 years of research, award winning academic and author exposes the fact that the workplace was designed for men, and if gender diversity is to be achieved, it’s the workplace—and not the woman—that needs to change.

— Michelle P. King

Gender Discrimination Still Exists — Now What?

Author explores gender bias in the workplace and offers effective ACTIONS that we can all take to ‘reset’ or hit ‘pause’ in a moment—and still remain professional and respectful.

— Morela Hernandez

Mentor vs. Sponsor

Author gets to the heart of why mentorship isn't really effective for women—or any high potential mid-level employee—to ascend to senior leadership roles.

— Elizabeth McDaid

Don’t wait. You deserve it.